Experts: social media is harmful for kids
Schools: let’s use social media as an official communication platform!
WTF.
I mean I got along without it, i just played video games and masturbated most of the time
Sounds like you’re older though. Social media wasn’t nearly as ubiquitous a decade ago as it is now.
There was separation between online and everything else. But for these kids, online is everything. The spaces are nearly equal in experience and importance.
Life without the internet made me feel alone and isolated with no recourse by which to find resilience to my abusers. While I can’t say I’d be different with social media and the internet to advise me they were lying to me and treating me unfairly for their own benefit, I’d at least have that perspective, and it wouldn’t be ingrained that I am just broken and should unlife and stop burning resources that could be better used elsewhere.
These days, I have management skills and a support system, but I still deal with suicidality every day, and am incapable of seeing any value I produce to the world (or see it insignificant compared to my footprint), and the internet and social media have figured largely in my comprehension of the mechanics of my mental illness (especially when dealing with professionals who are less interested in understand me as affirming their own ideology, not a new problem, but the current batch is particularly egregious).
It is, as I see it, a human right for people to be informed when they need to make life decisions (with concurrence from the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights), and without access to public information, kids rely on authorities who are either ignorant or complicit in feeding them false information. They should have access not only to the internet, but also to a robust community of people with differing ideas.
Fail to provide this and you get grown-up crackpots like me, who wonder every day if it’s time to check out.
Life as a teen isn’t easy anyway
Glad that shit is over for me. We only had MySpace and MSN Messenger. Must be so much worse now
I’d say so with those constant little dopamine hits. Shit, I’m 40 and I’ve had to put a bunch of efforSHIT IM ON LEMMY AGAIN!
Oh fuck you just reminded me I’m supposed to be working
Good on these parents for trying to raise their kids off social media. I can say with confidence social media only hurt me in middle and high school, and I wish my parents had had stronger opinions on me using it
I quit all non anonymous social media a while back and it’s lonely as fuck. If I wasn’t a low level autist with a small very online friend group I’d miss out on a lot. When people make plans for parties, get togethers, anything like that, they do it on social media and if I dont somehow hear about it and ask, I don’t get an invite. This works for me as many of those people and parties are things that I don’t wanna do, but if I had a kid in school I could not imagine the massive social gap it would create for them to not have social media.
For kids it really seems like a pick your poison situation, social media and all that comes eith it, or being left out of a lot of social activities at the most social time of your life.
