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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Manifestation doesn’t work. Planning and then taking consistent steps towards your goals does however

    In your 20s the stock market is for leaving a bunch of money in in the hopes you don’t have to see it for a long time.

    Fun is important, go socialize and hang out with peers. I’ll keep you sane and it’s how you wind up married if that’s your thing.

    And the headspace you want is discipline. It’s “I need to do this so I can have what matters to me” not some magical thinking of "if I think of myself as rich money will flow to me. The only way that works is by bluffing your way into places money is and making people think you belong.

    Most importantly though you’re at an important age to listen to one of my favorite quotes from Iroh in Avatar “It’s time for you to look inward, and start asking yourself the big questions. Who are you? And what do you want?”



  • People who are attracted to trans people are far more likely to only be attracted to our hormonal sex than to only be attracted to our assigned sex at birth.

    In general in queer spaces it’s understood that sexual orientation respects gender identity, for example I like both cis and trans women, but have no desire for anyone with a testosterone dominant body, and I identify as a lesbian.

    Some people aren’t into trans people of their preferred gender, just like some people aren’t into fat people of their preferred gender. In general the rules of politeness that one would follow for the latter should go for the former.