I’m just curious and don’t want to break any rules

  • Megan@beehaw.orgOP
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    2 years ago

    That’s very vague, that could be anything though. Can you be more specific

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        2 years ago

        Intentionally vague makes me think it’s that way on purpose so y’all can ban whoever you want

        • alyaza [they/she]@beehaw.orgM
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          it’s that way on purpose so y’all can ban whoever you want

          it is that way on purpose, and it is so we can ban people on an as-needed basis (which i guess in a sense is “whoever [we] want”) but excluding obvious trolls i think we’ve banned literally three people ever on the instance and it’s been extant for a year. using intuition on what’s acceptable and what’s not–and nudging them when they break a boundary–appears to work quite well for our users, so we’re not liable to start writing explicit rules any time soon

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          they can ban whoever they want, they own the website. Just like fb and twitter can ban whoever they want.

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            You’re not wrong. But how does that make a successful website when you ban everyone who challenges ideas? People are mean in real life, all some are, and I don’t see how just banning what you don’t like makes you prepared to deal with ‘mean’ people.

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              But how does that make a successful website when you ban everyone who challenges ideas?

              It doesn’t, but why would you think that they ban everyone who challenges ideas? They only want you to be nice.

              People are mean in real life, all some are, and I don’t see how just banning what you don’t like makes you prepared to deal with ‘mean’ people.

              Maybe that doesn’t perfectly prepare you, but not every website needs to do that. Other websites exist, on many of them you can literally be as mean as you want.

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      We have three admins here…odd number to break ties. Us three will discuss, if need be, what is nice and what is not nice. Most of the time this just boils down to common sense.

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        Ok, what if someone is being an asshole, can I call them out on that or do you immediately just ban them? What if I disagree with someone and that person gets pissed and calls me a homophobe or something, can I defend myself and my position?

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          If you exceed 100 asshole units then you will be autobanned by one of the cyborg mods.

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          Did you read the posts the linked you? I talk in depth about how discussions are encouraged. However, calling people names is not nice unless it’s warranted by behavior. Bans aren’t quick and fast and reactionary; behavior is to be discussed among all individuals involved.