• IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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    12 days ago

    I’d pay the 0.50 euro as soon a possible without a word.

    Then never offer to drive to do anything with them again.

    I’ve found that people who do this are either doing it as a joke and will let you know right away … or they are dead serious and it’s the kind of person you really want to avoid in every kind of way.

    • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.world
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      12 days ago

      Eh. Yeah, but at least you know where you stand with them, and everything will be strictly business. If there’s some business-like value to keeping the relationship, then just treat it like a business relationship, and see how it goes. I wouldn’t bail on someone like this for that alone, but I wouldn’t hang out with them as friends either.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      12 days ago

      Yep, exactly.

      If they can have a sense of humor about it, probably a decent, if cheeky, somewhat assholish, but maybe in an endearing / self-aware way, kind of person.

      If they cannot?

      Avoid avoid avoid avoid avoid.

      They’re an entitled manipulator, and have absolutely no respect for you.