tldr: I’d like to set up a reverse proxy with a domain and an SSL cert so my partner and I can access a few selfhosted services on the internet but I’m not sure what the best/safest way to do it is. Asking my partner to use tailsclae or wireguard is asking too much unfortunately. I was curious to know what you all recommend.
I have some services running on my LAN that I currently access via tailscale. Some of these services would see some benefit from being accessible on the internet (ex. Immich sharing via a link, switching over from Plex to Jellyfin without requiring my family to learn how to use a VPN, homeassistant voice stuff, etc.) but I’m kind of unsure what the best approach is. Hosting services on the internet has risk and I’d like to reduce that risk as much as possible.
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I know a reverse proxy would be beneficial here so I can put all the services on one box and access them via subdomains but where should I host that proxy? On my LAN using a dynamic DNS service? In the cloud? If in the cloud, should I avoid a plan where you share cpu resources with other users and get a dedicated box?
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Should I purchase a memorable domain or a domain with a random string of characters so no one could reasonably guess it? Does it matter?
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What’s the best way to geo-restrict access? Fail2ban? Realistically, the only people that I might give access to live within a couple hundred miles of me.
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Any other tips or info you care to share would be greatly appreciated.
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Feel free to talk me out of it as well.
At a high level you forward ports 80 and 443 to NPM from your router. In NPM you set up your proxy by IP address and port and you can also set up automatic SSL certs when you create the proxy via letsencrypt. I also run a DDNS auto update that tells porkbun if my IP changes. I’d be happy to get into some more specifics if there’s a particular spot you’re stuck. This is all assuming you have a public IPv4 and aren’t behind cgnat. If you have cgnat you’re not totally fucked but it makes it more complicated. If it’s OPNsense related struggles that shit is mysterious to me, I’ve only been running it a few weeks and it’s not fully configured. Still learning.
Why am I forwarding all http and https traffic from WAN to a single system on my LAN? Wouldn’t that break my DNS?