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StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•I've stagnated, I should not stagnate but I don't have any motivation not to stagnate, what do I do?English
5·8 hours agoSo your doctor said something smart, but you have excuses as to why it wouldn’t work. Which tells me it’s less about the excuses but more that you don’t want to go that route in the first place. Which leads me to believe you shouldn’t pursue that path.
Can you give us an idea about your life outside of work? When you get home do you have freetime? Do you get home and flop on the bed and wake up to do it again? Do you have free time but spend it drinking, smoking, or otherwise self medicating?
I ask because, for a lot of us, our free time is the only time we have to sacrifice to pursue our personal goals unfortunately. Do you feel you have the free time to pursue these goals? Could you go to a night class at a community college on writing and see if you gain anything from it? I believe you can get partially through a semester at most places before you’re no longer eligible for a full refund and withdrawal if it’s not for you.
Would you ever consider therapy? It might help with the feeling of being overwhelmed. You might feel like you’re “supposed” to be happy, but it’s not always stability that provides that. Sometimes the pain that we go through to achieve stability ultimately is not worth it.
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If a God or God's is or r so Omnipotent why do they or them or he or she, supposedly get angry, show support, enjoy things, have sex (in Greek Gods), or show forgiveness? Are the not all human emotes?English
5·2 days agoI’m not sure omnipotence (all encompassing power) had anything to do with having emotions
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How would you feel if someone said you deserve cancer or to die?English
3·4 days agoI’m sorry you’re doomed, once the uprising comes, you’re marked
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How would you feel if someone said you deserve cancer or to die?English
1·4 days agoCan someone explain to me what exactly the downvotes storm is? I mean it’s a weird question sure but, what’s happening
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How would you feel if someone said you deserve cancer or to die?English
2·4 days agoDon’t make the same dumbass joke we’ve heard a million times “ope, didn’t scan, must be free”, other than that, just don’t lose your patience with someone who legitimately cannot defend themselves without getting fired
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are tv shows about billionaires so popular?English
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StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do I break my scrum/project manager friend?English
2·5 days agoForgive me if I don’t quite believe someone who hasn’t lived that life
I can very easily say “nobody wants a desk job”
That opinions kind of hollow since i haven’t had a desk job. I know what I wouldn’t want to have, it doesn’t allow me to make blanket statements though.
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do I break my scrum/project manager friend?English
31·5 days agoYou would not do well in trades. We rib each other all the time, we love it, and everyone knows each other’s boundaries, there’s certain lines you don’t cross
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do I break my scrum/project manager friend?English
9·6 days agoI’m gonna hopefully assume y’all have a joking nature and he’ll appreciate this ?
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What would you do if you found out your dad changed his name and went no-contact with his family years ago, before you were even born?English
7·10 days agoAsk him about it like an adult
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Games@lemmy.world•Built a free British social chat site — would loveEnglish
8·12 days agoHold up, did you just say this Is this a gambling chatroom that specifically has a chat section for 15+ year olds?
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Anyone else think this news story is a bit fishy?English
21·13 days agoWhat is the conspiracy supposed to be here? That the two guys just added themselves and big canal is covering it up?
“Man and his carer” implies someone elderly with mobility issues, and if they fell that’s easily an impact injury
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•Someone near me created this horrific truck altar.English
1414·13 days agoFuck cars, but you’re giving HOA energy here, kinda lame
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Technology@lemmy.world•Mullvad to patch VPN fingerprinting issue to stop your activity from being tracked across serversEnglish
11·17 days agoEven proton is super exposed to the web, I hate nord but they’re the only one I’ve ever used where you barely ever get captchas or broken apps
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's your greatest regret? Be as cryptic as possibleEnglish
151·18 days agoIf only I had stayed for seconds on bacon that day
I can’t take all the credit. If you like Aussie comics getting drunk and playing DND, I highly suggest you check out dragon friends!
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Technology@lemmy.world•Smart glasses are 'an invasion of privacy' - Meta's are selling better than everEnglish
71·24 days agoYou will get your ass beat
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Privacy@lemmy.ml•I was a week away from buying a Pixel Pro 10 for GrapheneOSEnglish
21·27 days agoYeah exactly. Millions of websites? Which ones? Though I don’t see how this would benefit google
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksto
Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•They spelled "Open" wrongEnglish
1·1 month agoMake me






Excellent take, couldn’t agree more