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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • Work is wearing me out, but I’m still trying to address the volume of tasks thrown at me every day. Hoping to get more staff soon since we were told to expect 2 more (although 8 more would be better). Still excited for what’s to come, and who knows where we all will be in a year. I have to keep reminding myself to take it one step at a time because that’s what I have in my control. We wake up, we try our best, we rest, and then we keep trying.


  • Just taking stock of what is wonderful and special about life, work, and my relationships while we move into summer.

    I spent weekend free time organizing and spring cleaning, finally tacklinga few things I’ve put off for months. It was time, and I had incredible help from my partner.

    Two of my closest friends went through fundamental life changes recently, and I want to continue to be there for both of them… one whose father passed after a years long battle with Parkinson’s, and another, who is a victim of some severe DV. While the pieces are picked up and rearranged, both have come to a crossroads, and I’m so lucky to be there to see the positive transformation for them. I so desperately want to be a source of help and affirmation, and just want to do a good job. They’re both far enough away that it would be a significant cost to see each of them in person, so I have to be support at a distance, which is hard cause I want to hug them both and cry with them. I’m also grateful that I have the time, energy, and mental state to be there for them.

    Although work is chaotic, it’s also weirdly calm. This feels like the time for fundamental shifts, and I’m continuing to maintain radical hope that positive energy and community is growing everywhere.

    Beehaw continues to be a source of encouragement and community! Thank you all! Sending you positivity as you move through your week.


  • I can relate, and best of luck! Those personal deadlines start piling up when work gets overwhelming. Every now and then, remember to put work aside and take care of you - ya know, putting your oxygen mask on first before helping others (I’m trying to listen to my own advice here lol). I also started a new position at the same time and am settled in, but the real test begins when the next new project drops that’s due in October. You got this!






  • This is the time to begin learning about community gardens (or starting one!) in your area. Urban agriculture is a solution, and growing local food sources that are maintained by your neighborhood will ultimately be a necessary stop gap.

    I’ve seen nonprofits successfully go to their municipalities and propose to buy a plot of land that is underutilized and turn it into a thriving garden, maintained by volunteers they manage.

    It’s not a fail proof solution, but it is an adaptation that works. If we’re unable to grow due to extreme heat, or can’t ship goods due to rising costs, crop failure, or supply chain deterioration, what better way to use your free time than support a community garden!



  • My week was busy until it got supercharged with an ask from another office to drive almost 5 hours one way to emcee two different events, in two cities on the same day. I’m nervous, excited, and exhausted from having so much work already, but even though I was volun-told, this is what I signed up for. At least I had 4 days notice this time. I just wish I could travel with someone instead of alone.

    My best friend’s birthday was this past week. He’s been gone for almost a year and a half now, and it’s still weird not being able to feel his energy.

    And, the leader of a nation now has my cell phone number… but he asked nicely so I couldn’t deny the request. My boss said he would definitely call me, and I’m not sure how to feel about that.








  • Can relate. It sounds like the choice to visit family in Texas is not one you have much wiggle room to make (between seeing them or not, the answer seems obvious if you love/care for/miss them). Best you can do is support local business, aka Mom and Pop places that actually employ local folks and treat them humanely. It takes research but you can direct your energy that way as much as possible. Where we can, we’re able to be mindful of our choices to reduce the harm we know is present, without diminishing our lives and being separated from our loved ones. I’m open to other thoughts on this. I just haven’t found a good option in this situation either. Good luck, friend.