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Ilflish@lemm.ee to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago

Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags

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Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags

Ilflish@lemm.ee to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago
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  • GarfieldYaoi [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    No particular order:

    • Being a furry/furry sympathetic.
    • A science major of any kind. IMO the S needs more love in STEM.
    • Ever overhear them say “walkable” in a positive light.
    • Hobbies besides media consumption
    • Not “too cool” to learn something. Likes learning for fun.
    • Not to concerned with looking cool or badass, either. Look at CHUDs, I made a joke the other day that I can sense a decent bit of residual 90’s 'tude in modern CHUDDery, and I think I’m onto something.
    • bigboopballs [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      Likes learning for fun.

      where do I find other people like this? where am I supposed to go?

      • Sickos [they/them, it/its]@hexbear.net
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        Makerspaces? Maybe just hang around at bars near your local conference/convention center?

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          Makerspaces? Maybe just hang around at bars near your local conference/convention center?

          I’ll feel weird and out of place. But I guess I have nothing better to do. lol

          and I gotta hope no gross chuds pick on me

      • hahattpro@lemmy.ml
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        To nerd forum, i guess, like LessWrong.

        • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]@hexbear.net
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          don’t go there

        • WIIHAPPYFEW [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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          Nah that site’s full of subtly (and sometimes overtly) unnerving techbros

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          seems like a place where there’d be very few women. lol

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