I just got up from conversation with a couple of older black men, that I said “well I got to go back to work and start cracking the whip.” And it occurred to me then that it was probably a really insensitive stupid thing to say.
Sadly, it hadn’t occurred to me until it’s already said.
“it’s their fault if they get offended”
I value the well being of those I care about, if youre shitting your whole ass over something so small as “crack the whip” then you are not someone i care about