I’m a man. Only ever dated, been attracted to women. Recently I met this guy and I’m having weird feelings. I can’t quite tell if I’m attracted to him as a person or just like the way he treats me; nonetheless something makes me want to treat him differently than any other guys - the way I would a girl I suppose. My friends say I might be attracted to femininity in general regardless of gender and that’s why I feel this way, and the reason why it hasn’t surfaced until now is because I haven’t yet met a guy to tick those boxes. Wondering if anyone has been through something similar.

  • subignition@fedia.io
    11·
    27 days ago

    A weird and wonderful part of the human experience is that we don’t really get to choose what we like, we can only try to categorize what we experience.

    I think you should follow your heart and to hell with anyone who would judge you for it.

    • JackbyDev@programming.devEnglish
      21·
      26 days ago

      we don’t really get to choose what we like, we can only try to categorize what we experience.

      I’ve never seen it said so succinctly before. I love this! Labels are for communication, not defining our behavior.