Apparently it’s a trend that most men just receive wallets rather than buying them

  • SOB_Van_Owen@lemm.ee
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    4 days ago

    I never got one as a gift I really wanted to use. Care nothing for style, but look for practicality for me. After much trial and error have found a trifold made of sailcloth to be most lasting and useful for my sloppy wallet needs.

  • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    YOU CAN BUY YOURSELF ANYTHING YOU WANT ESPECIALLY A WALLET

    srry this just reads as “duh my bros is it geyy to git yerself a wallet” NO JUST BUY ONE

  • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    When I was younger, yeah.

    I think wallets are for people nobody knows what to buy for. Like getting them a tie. No hobbies, no interests, no personal declarations of what they might like. Or people just don’t know them well enough to get anything other than some generic gift like a wallet.

  • TriflingToad@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I bought mine

    Works well as a lanyard too, ADHD would be having me leave it everywhere if it weren’t strapped to my noggin

  • dumbass@leminal.space
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    7 days ago

    I keep getting wallets as gifts even though everyone knows I don’t use a wallet, I have a collection of wallets that will never feel the back of my ass.

    • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      7 days ago

      I really should get a new one. I think I bought one when I was 16, and another at 20. 15 years later it is falling apart but still have the same one. I wonder if that means I haven’t had a good friend or family member to buy me a wallet for 15 years. Sobering thought haha

  • kerrigan778@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I have only gotten one wallet as a gift ever, it was a family heirloom of sorts. All my other wallets I have used I have bought myself

  • NOPper@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I bought a Ridge over a decade ago before they went all crazy political, and beyond some wear around the edges it’s held up great. Which it should, it’s fucking aluminum and titanium. The elastic cash band got stretched out pretty bad over time but I contacted em for a replacement last year and they just sent me one for free.

    I don’t think anyone’s ever bought me a wallet, which tracks with my wishes for everyday carry items honestly.

  • Furbag@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    I know I bought my last couple of wallets from the same place, usually because I walk past the wallet display stand, see a new one that I fancy, and decide on a whim to buy it. I get good mileage out of them, and they are generally inexpensive so even if I trade in every few years, it’s still nice to have a fresh wallet every now and again. I occasionally swap between bifold and trifold as well. One thing I know is I can’t do the minimalist design ones, I have too much shit in my wallet that I need just often enough to warrant carrying them around all the time (lest I forget them when I actually need them) but the desire to have the slimmest and most compact shape is definitely strong too. The two forces battle each other in my mind, and I usually settle for larger size in the end for convenience rather than comfort.

    I’m not sure if I’ve ever received a wallet as a gift before. Maybe when i was a kid, and it would have been one of those nylon ones with the zippers for pocket change and the velcro for the money section.

    I think my next wallet is going to be a really fancy one. Only thing I’m hesitating on in regard to that is I think cheaper wallet brands actually have the pulse of the everyman when it comes to design, whereas the fancier leather ones are somewhat impractical with fewer card slots, or very tight tolerances for sliding cards or money in them. I have to find just the right one, but I’m in no rush to replace my current wallet.

  • Default_Defect@midwest.social
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    7 days ago

    I was taken to the store by my step father and he made me spend my money on a wallet that I no longer had money to put inside of. I have bought all of my wallets myself.

  • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    I tend to be particular about my everyday carry equipment and so I think I’ve killed that kind of gift out of my circle. My current wallet is entering its 12th year of service in surprisingly good condition. A Big Skinny L-shape. I’m not in the habit of carrying all my airman certificates around with me anymore so if I were to replace it I’d just go with their basic nylon bifold.

    Seems to be a cool company; when I bought my wallet in early 2013 the price was $26, it’s now $30. I think that’s slower than inflation.