So I cheated on my boyfriend due to among other things struggles with drug addiction and mental health but i am passed that and he has forgiven me and in turn I have done so much for him and we have a great relationship
when he posted we were back together on his social media he had tons of people come out of the woodwork to tell him not to take me bac and I was a worthless woman that deserved no rights
But why ? It can’t be genine concern for him because these guys hadn’t talked to him in years and weren’t there for him when he posted about my infidelity previously
He also had a few girls come out of the wood work which you would think would be an attempt to date him but it ca’t be that agian they had like 6 months we were broken up they could have done it then
Yo usupport anythign between 2 consenting adults. Why is it rong to forgive the one you love ?
Any chance that this is a matter of sample size? As in, he has more guys in Facebook than girls. At least the ones who know him well enough to ask this rather personal question.
I have no answer for you, but I don’t see why this would be a gendered thing.
No, it’s pretty much an everyone thing. Sure, you’ll find some people sympathetic to your case, but for the most part, it’s an “unforgivable sin”.
No matter what they say, all you can do is either prove them all wrong, or prove them all right.
Edit: I forgot I was replying to a comment, so the tone is directed towards OP.